Two of the most powerful emotions that we feel—
Shame and Embarassment
Many women experience them on a deep level and suffer every day.
The good news is that now there is a way to change your life. Even if in your heart of hearts you don’t believe it’s possible. This is your story. This is my story. And it’s the story of hundreds of thousands of women who can’t even express what’s inside of them.
These two emotions hold us back from experiencing life at it’s fullest. It holds us back in our careers. It holds us back in our finances. And above all it holds us back in our relationships.
You may have experienced success in your professional life in breaking through the glass ceiling. But perhaps this kind of breakthrough hasn’t taken place yet in your relationship and in the bedroom.
The most powerful barriers that hold us back are very often the ones that we put there ourselves. And one of the toughest for women to break through is getting in touch with their own sexuality.
When women do start taking control of their sexuality, it is the ultimate empowerment for them. It is a wonderful part of life that sadly most women aren’t fully enjoying. We've come such a long way and this is one of the final frontiers. It's time to continue changing history.
Ask any woman what kind of sex life she would have and the answers are very similar.
“I want the Sex I see in the movies.”
“I want the steamy passion.”
“I want to feel the love in my body and my soul.”
“I want to feel like that. “
I want to be able to leave my shyness and inhibitions at the bedroom door. Just like in the movie when Harry met Sally ~ “I’ll have what she’s having.”
In fact it’s long overdue.
We have condemned ourselves to a life of unsatisfactory and barely acceptable sex.
We can’t speak even to our closest friends about our sexual needs and emptiness. And if we can’t talk about these to our closest friends, we certainly can’t talk about them to our lovers and partners.
When we see the passionate sex on the silver screen it’s so apparent that it’s missing in our lives. In the past months the “me too” movement has finally made it permissible for people to talk about abuse. But honestly, there is a need for a widespread movement to acknowledge this desire to be fulfilled.
Countless Women have shared their stories with me. They felt alone and isolated. Low libido, lack of desire, fear of physical and emotional issues had them suffering in silence. Women went along with their partners out of a sense of duty not out of a sense of WOW.
I found most women fall into these categories:
* Faking enjoying it, or even an orgasm, when really they have no desire whatsoever.
* They are broken.
* They may have loved sex at some point. But those days are over. The burning fire seems to have been distinguished. Age, medications, hormones or other factors have taken their toll.
* Lastly, the men that they have been with are focused on their own pleasure, and don’t pay attention to satisfying their partners needs.
Chances are you fall into one of these categories. You wish you could have passionate sex. Maybe even just once in your life. But it seems like just a fantasy.
Well ladies, take heart. Barely acceptable, routine sex is more the norm for most people.
You are not alone.
You are definitely not alone. According to a recent survey by the National Women’s Health Week, 62 percent of women admitted to not being satisfied with their sex lives.
But it’s not just about being satisfied. People are playing along just to please their partners. Laurie Mintz, therapist, professor, writer and speakers’ research shows that more than half of women fake orgasms.
As a matter of fact, Lonnie Barbach, a famed sex therapist and researcher, writes in For Yourself : The Fulfillment of Female Sexuality - most women leave a sexual encounter feeling frustrated and angry, sad and disappointed .
Therefore, it logically follows that most women do not have satisfactory sex lives. Nicole Daedone who is a sex coach, said In Slow Sex: The Art and Craft of the Female Orgasm the kind of sex we’ve been settling for, just because it’s what’s available at the Local Shop ’n Save, is not the only option.
Yes, we have been settling, and as Huffington Post author Carl Honore states just ask the millions of women now being diagnosed with low libido.
Shere Hite, who you may remember from the infamous Hite Report (first published in 1976, a sexual revolution in six hundred pages), has said that for the majority of women, sexual intercourse is unsatisfactory, so far as having orgasms is concerned. Additionally, she is convinced that intimate sexual behavior is socially rather than biologically conditioned. But more on that later.
As women, we know parts of our bodies very well. Yet there are other parts we seem to shy away from getting to know better. Dr. Laurie Mintz whose latest book, the sex-positive Becoming Cliterate: Why Orgasm Equality Matters and How to Get It, focuses on female sexual pleasure. She states that as a therapist, I often see heterosexual women complaining of sexual dissatisfaction. Often at the root of the complaint is either a lack of knowledge of their own bodies, a fear of telling their male partners what they want, or both.
She also goes on to say that there is a pleasure gap - and the number one reason for this gap is the mistaken belief that ‘women should orgasm from intercourse.’
Shere Hite declared that orgasm is easy and strong for women, given the right stimulation; that most women have orgasm most easily during masturbation or clitoral stimulation by hand. She said like sleeping beauty awakening, women need a little time after nearly 2000 years of misinformation, to think clearly, to let the fog lift.
Well it’s time to help lift the fog. The Hite Report was written in 1976, and we really need to become more familiar with our own anatomy now. If we don’t know ourselves and what makes us feel good, how can we expect our partners to know?
Once we do know what we want, it’s important to be able to get it.
No matter how outgoing a woman is in the outside world, most of us lack confidence in the bedroom. Lonnie Barbach says some women feel undeserving of sexual pleasure, and feel like second class citizens in the bedroom, are inhibited and embarrassed about their bodies and sexual feelings. She continues by saying there is a great need in our society for people to drop shame about their sexuality in order to enjoy it.
It takes courage to admit you want more from your sex life. It can be taboo and embarrassing to say that we’re not 100 percent satisfied with what we already have adds Nicole Daedone. She also says in her book~ fear of hurting our partner is at the top of the list of reasons most people - women especially - feel uncomfortable asking for what we want from our partners.
Emily Nagoski in her book Come as You Are: The Surprising New Science That Will Transform Your Sex Life targets women who feel beaten down or lost, who need to hear over and over again that they are ok, they are not "broken," and they deserve to be happy and feel good. Repeat that over and over to yourself - you deserve to be happy and feel good.
Alas, the issues we experience in the bedroom.
A man’s purpose in sex is to ejaculate and go to sleep, and the majority don’t know what women need. So it’s no wonder that women say their biggest complaint is—wait for it—not enough foreplay. Shocker, right? says Ian Kerner,Ph.D., a sex therapist.
The top relationship researcher, John Gottman, says fake foreplay leads to fake orgasm - and boy, don’t you know that.
When women and men get it on, intercourse is generally considered the main event and any clitoral simulation before relegated to “foreplay” – a warm-up to get the woman ready for intercourse. It’s no wonder that one survey conducted with thousands of readers of Cosmopolitan magazine found that during sexual encounters that involve intercourse, 78% of women’s orgasm problems were due to not getting enough of or the right kind of clitoral stimulation.
Debby Herbenick, Ph.D. a sex researcher and educator at Indiana University, says in the National Survey of Sexual Health and Behavior (NSSHB), the largest-ever survey of sexual behavior in the United States, Men and Women take different paths to the big payoff. Guys generally just want to plunge into the pleasure zone, while women are … women.
Another study, published in the Archives of Sexual Behavior, has revealed that when it comes to sexual activity, straight women are having fewer orgasms at the hands of their partners (so to speak) than any other group surveyed. Women who stuck to male partners only reported having orgasms around 65% of the time— by some grading standards, a solid D.
Amy Schumer, a famous Hollywood actress and comedienne, has been called an “orgasm activist.” She’s telling men everywhere to care about women’s orgasms and she’s telling women everywhere that they deserve orgasms. Quoting from an article in Huff Post Women:
Schumer said that when it comes to sex, a woman's orgasm should never be optional. Make sure he knows that you’re entitled to an orgasm. I like to say it. I’ll be like, ‘Hey, there are two people here.’
The infamous Dr Ruth chimed in saying the principle concern for women is not having an orgasm. But a woman has to take responsibility for her own orgasms.
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The bottom line is that intercourse is not the key to most women's sexual satisfaction. In fact, multiple studies show that 95 % of women need clitoral stimulation to reach orgasm. And only about 15 % of women have orgasms from thrusting alone (intercourse).
Now this may be shocking because it goes against your upbringing. Or you may have heard that this is something that only bad girls did. Nonsense ~ Nothing could be further than the truth. Drumroll please. The good news is that many women can improve their sexual enjoyment. Nobody knows how to have passionate, wonderful, fulfilling sex until they learn and practice. But hard as it may be to hear, first you’ve got to learn you.
Lovers have nothing to do with it. This has to come from within you. Then and only then will sexual pleasure come. When you practice self pleasuring, experiment, and become more sensual you will start on the path to sexual fulfillment.
The science of female arousal is complex and neglected. It’s all so complicated – It’s not like you were ever given a handbook on how to navigate your body for pleasure. Au Contraire.
We all need to learn about our own bodies and what gives us pleasure before we can ever really share it with a lover.
You may possibly be wondering, why do I even need to think about this. It’s simple ~ orgasms are healthy. In fact, having an orgasm could actually help improve your health.
An orgasm feels good because your brain releases the pleasure hormone oxytocin when you climax. Oxytocin has been called the ‘love hormone.’ It’s time to begin to truly love yourself.
By now you know that the majority of women don’t have orgasms through intercourse. In order to experience the magic of an orgasm, a woman must have a stimulated clitoris. With age, hormonal changes, medications, life tolls, not only can our sexual desire decrease, it becomes more difficult to become turned on.
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* Disclaimer *Results may vary
O Yes Sensual Arousal Cream may have varying results for women at different times of the month. This could be due to hormonal balance, response to stimulation, mood, medication, etc.
O Yes Sensual Arousal Cream should only be used during sexual stimulation and sexual intercourse. It acts locally and on the clitoris and clitoral area.
It is a topical cream and will activate nerve endings. Therefore, you should not have any lesions in the vagina because the cream will cause irritation.
As with all other spot female enhancement products that increase* blood flow, O Yes Sensual Arousal Cream is not to be used if you have any blood related conditions such as high blood pressure and heart conditions.
*Arginine may interact with certain heart and blood pressure medications. Please talk to your doctor before using O Yes Sensual Arousal Cream.
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These statements have not been evaluated by the Food and Drug Administration. This product is not intended to diagnose, treat, cure or prevent any disease. If you are pregnant, nursing, taking medication, or have a medical condition, consult your physician before using this product.
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